My love readings might appear random but they are actually “divinely guided.” I just go with the flow until I get the spiritual nudge to post a love reading. Sorry that the couples reading was posted first, but it made me optimistic to think that my last singles reading got less views than the couples because some of the singles have coupled up with someone. I know my past singles readings looked like love was around the corner and again it appears this way. YAY!
As usual this is a “general reading” for singles that are looking for love. This reading might not apply to you and your specific situation, but I hope you are able to take away something that resonates with your heart and soul.
We have two “soulmate” cards in this reading. The “Coming Together” card is also known as the “2 of Cups” in most tarot decks and is referred to as the “soulmate” card. It is so interesting how I chose this deck and this card is called “Coming Together” and then falls in the advice position-like come together people! Do you already know your soulmate? Seriously, think about it for a second-who comes to your mind first? Another card in the advice position is “Move,” encouraging you to take action and make your move. Guy or gal, this is not the time to follow society traditions of courting-break those outdated rules. If you have somebody in mind-make your move. This is a connection of mind, body and spirit-a natural friendship. Maybe you're just friends right now but this could change to a romantic relationship. Who doesn’t want to marry their best friend? This soulmate could also be someone you had a falling out with in the past since the “Heal” card is under the "Coming Together" card and again in the advice position. Is it time to reach out and make amends with that person? Is forgiveness and a fresh start needed? Again, I see that the feelings are mutual-does this give you the courage to go for it? If you need more time to heal yourself-please look to the chakra affirmations and energizing exercises I will list at the end of this reading. If you are suffering from a health impairment, please seek the help of a health care professional.
Here goes my song messages-John Mayer’s “Say” is playing on Pandora right now. I mean seriously?!? Say what you need to say! I love the constant messages delivered by the Universe/Divine/God-whomever you believe is your higher power.
Take a few minutes to center yourself, take some deep breaths, close your eyes and ask who is your soulmate. Does a face or name appear? If not, then know that this soulmate is around the corner and you are soon to meet. Again, this doesn’t mean that the person will fall into your lap-you will have to get out there and increase your chances of meeting. Seek activities that bring you joy, explore your passions and opportunities to indulge in these activities-a cooking class, dancing, a meetup group, etc. Anything that stirs your heart with joy will help ignite your passions. Engaging in these social activities brings great opportunity to meet a wonderful partner with shared passions. How amazing to meet someone who has similar passions, interests and hobbies as you. Most likely, you and your soulmate will just click and enjoy conversations on many topics. You will also have some great chemistry with the “Passion” card-just take a look at the steamy picture on the “Passion” card! You should be able to recognize your soulmate upon first meeting-as there will be a sense of familiarity and comfort you feel with them-like you have known them before.
I am seeing and feeling a few potential obstacles to a love relationship for you at this time. Since this reading is for many people-maybe only one or a few will apply to you, but you will know which ones apply to your situation. First, I feel frustration and restriction-like you are stuck or being held back. It appears that you know who you want to pursue a relationship with but some situation or possibly another person is creating a block. Maybe you have an overbearing friend or relative that thinks they know what is best for you and are dissuading you from pursuing the person you are interested in. Seriously, if you are interested in this person, don’t let another person’s opinions stop you. Only you know what is in your heart and sometimes we can only rely on our intuition. You don’t have to explain your choices to anyone. I am not sure what the situation would be...possibly you are in a transition of some sort. I also feel impatience which could apply to these mentioned restrictions. If you are impatiently waiting for someone you are interested in to make the first move, I encourage YOU to make the first move...as long as that person is single! (I don’t encourage breaking up any relationships.) This is a time for you to let your heart take the lead. I see your mind is awaiting guidance from your heart. Let your mind have a conversation with your heart.
I also see that you might be emotionally detached right now, maybe longing for someone but still healing from some past heartache. It appears sadness could be preventing you from moving forward into more satisfying loving relationships. Past sorrows cause you to withdraw from your emotions and other people as a way of preventing further pain. Take the time you need to heal from this heartache and open up when you are ready. Just don’t stay closed off and shut down longer than you need to heal as this will prevent energy flow which will interfere with the ability of the Universe to fulfill your dreams. When your energy is open and flowing freely, you naturally attract what you are seeking.
Another challenge at this time is fear. Take some time to introspect and figure out what you are fearing...rejection? Intimacy? If you are reading this...then you are interested in finding love, right? Question and challenge your fears and find that you have the power and courage to conquer them, as they are usually irrational. If you are already interested in somebody than you have to let them know. If your feelings are not reciprocated, then you can move on without the “what ifs” and stop crushing on them...moving you towards that soulmate you are supposed to be with. Other challenges (but stemming from fear) could be insecurity, lack of confidence, guilt/shame, control issues-too controlling or feeling helpless, etc. You will have to do some introspection and inner work. Chakra healing-such as affirmations, visualizations, diet or actual energy healing will also help.
If you need time to heal from a broken-heart, that is wise and loving. Take the time you need to heal yourself-you should only pursue a relationship when you are healed, stable and happy. A part of healing will also include releasing resentment and blame, as well as forgiving yourself and others. Feeling at peace and hopeful for the future will invite new relationships into your life.
If you don’t need healing then your advice is to conquer your fears and insecurities, take action, explore your passions and communicate. Take a chance on love-pursue that love interest or get out there and meet people. Life is for living and that includes taking risks to achieve your goals. Let yourself be vulnerable, risk rejection and gain strength/courage by pursuing your dreams. I am assuming that your goals and dreams include love and being in a relationship. Value yourself, know that you are worthy of achieving your dreams and are worthy of loving, respectful relationships.
You also might have a blocked root and/or solar plexus chakra (energy center). Your root chakra is your first chakra and is located at the base of your spine-it is red in color. Your root chakra is your foundation, your security, safety and survival center. A blocked root chakra can cause many issues including lower back pain, depression, fear and codependency. Any physical activity helps to activate and strengthen this chakra-exercise, stretching, dancing, etc. Also any activity involving nature. It is also helpful to eat red fruits and vegetables. You can also try a visualization exercise where you meditate and visualize a radiating red light at the base of your spine extending down your legs and into the ground. There are several meditations and visualizations on the web-just Google Root Chakra meditation/activation/visualizations. Affirmations are helpful too and I will list some below.
Your solar plexus chakra is your third chakra located at your navel-it is yellow in color. Your solar plexus chakra is your energy center responsible for your confidence, willpower, sense of self and achieving goals. A blocked solar plexus chakra can cause many issues including fear, guilt/shame, poor boundaries and control issues. Eating yellow fruits and vegetables can strengthen this chakra. You could also try this breathing/visualization exercise-Close your eyes and as you inhale deeply through your nose, breathe in the color yellow. See it coming from a glowing, brilliant sun and entering your solar plexus. Exhale through your mouth all the energies that don’t serve you. Believe that you can have the relationships you desire and you will! Again, there are many variations of meditations and visualization on the web-just Google Solar Plexus meditation/activation/visualizations. I will also list solar plexus affirmations below.
**A disclaimer-this advice does not replace or should not be used as an alternative to health care. If you are suffering from any physical or mental health concerns, please see a physician, psychiatrist or counselor. Take care of yourself and your health. I wish you nothing but health and happiness.**
I want to wish you strength, courage and faith. Know that you are worthy of great love! Go get that soulmate!
Root Chakra Affirmation:
I am grounded. I am connected to my body. I feel safe and secure. I live with integrity. I stand for my values, truth and justice. I have what I need. I nurture my body with healthy food, water, exercise and sleep. I am connected with nature. I am open to possibilities. I am grateful for all the challenges that have helped me grow and transform. I trust in the goodness of life. I trust myself. I am supported in life through my choices to do good and share the light of love.
Solar Plexus Chakra Affirmation:
I love and accept myself. I respect and honor myself. I can achieve anything I desire. I believe in myself. I deserve to be loved and respected by those around me. I stand up for myself. I am strong and courageous. I am worthy of love, kindness and respect. I am proud of my achievements. I choose healthy relationships. I am authentic. I direct my own life. I appreciate my strengths. I seek opportunities for personal and spiritual growth. I am at peace with myself.
Decks Consulted: Psychic Tarot for the Heart by John Holland, Smith-Waite Tarot Deck Centennial Edition, Romance Angels Oracle Cards by Doreen Virtue and Whispers of Love Oracle Cards by Angela Hartfield